A 4-evening training · Unified Healing School, Ubud · October 19–22, 2026
Discover how your relational patterns live in your body, and move from armor and protection to the freedom of showing yourself as you truly are.
Only 10 early-bird places · limited to 20 participants
The premise
They live in your body. Somatic-Relational Tantra weaves together somatic work, tantric principles, and relational awareness to reveal something most of us were never taught: the ways we protect ourselves in connection are held in the nervous system, as physical sensation, as armor. And what is held in the body can only truly change in the body.
This is an experiential, hands-on training grounded in a clear theoretical foundation. You will not just understand your patterns. You will feel them, and begin to transform them at the root.
The journey · Four evenings
It is one deliberate arc, with a beginning, a middle, and an arrival. Over four evenings you move from understanding how your patterns live in your body, to meeting your own armor, to tracing it to its origin, to the freedom and joy of being fully seen. Each evening builds on the one before. The sequence is the work. You cannot reach the fourth evening without walking through the first three, and that is exactly the point.
Evening 1 · Oct 19
How the nervous system holds our history (window of tolerance, co-regulation). How relational patterns become armor in the body. Why the body, not the mind, is the doorway to change. Safety, consent, and first practices of inhabiting the body, including gentle first contact to begin building safety with another.
Evening 2 · Oct 20
Locating your own armor and defenses as physical sensation. Breath and activation to awaken the body. Rather than fighting the armor, we honor it: recognizing how it has protected you, understanding its function and its wisdom. Contact work lets you feel where the armor lives in relationship, and begin to sense what lies beyond it.
Evening 3 · Oct 21
Tracing the armor to its origin in your personal story, with compassion. Learning tools to live beyond it: co-regulation between nervous systems, the body’s yes and no, giving and receiving, staying present and open with another without bracing. Feeling, in the body, that it is safe to soften.
Evening 4 · Oct 22
Softening into the plenitude and joy of being seen completely, without hiding, without fleeing. Deeper contact from this open place. Integrating the whole journey, from the armor that protected us to the freedom of showing ourselves as we truly are. A group somatic closing ritual, and the awarding of diplomas.
Understand how your nervous system and body hold your relational patterns and personal history.
Recognize your own armor and defenses as physical sensation.
Trace your patterns to their origin, understanding them with compassion.
Soften and begin to transform your armor through somatic, breath, movement, and conscious-touch practices.
Experience the freedom of showing yourself authentically, and carry real tools into daily life.
Your facilitator
I am a sociologist and anthropologist, a transpersonal and relational guide, and a masculine coach, with training in psychotherapy, psychocorporal (body-based) work, and conscious intimacy, and I am a certified tantra teacher. For over four years I have facilitated group experiences, with more than fifty workshops and trainings delivered, and I accompany people more deeply through individual sessions, over two hundred to date. I facilitate online group programs and residential retreats in Spain and Bali. My work centers on conscious relationships, somatic and psychocorporal work, conscious intimacy, and masculine-feminine polarity.
Testimonials
Esaú’s energy of calm, wisdom, and transparency allowed us to access exactly what we needed. We learned that Tantra goes far beyond techniques about sex. Many people confuse this and only relate it to sex, but the truth is it is a deep connection between you and your partner. It was one of the best experiences of our lives.
My trust in masculinity is fragile, so my prerequisite was a safe, honest, respectful environment. Esaú took the time to understand my vulnerability. I dared to sink into my body and give space to what surfaced. I tapped into my own life energy again and felt I no longer need to diminish myself. It was healing to soften and reveal my vulnerable side, and also my strength and fire, in the presence of a safe masculine energy.
My experience was profound. I felt comfortable from the very beginning because he radiates a serene energy, a rare balance between the masculine and feminine. From a place of humility and vulnerability, he created and sustained a very safe, held space to understand what Tantra really is. I will definitely return.
Inside the experience
This work is not something you observe from the outside. It is felt through breath, movement, presence, and carefully guided connection.
Esaú creates a grounded space where you can slow down, notice what your body is already saying, and meet another person without performance. The pace is clear, consent is present at every step, and nothing is forced.
A glimpse of the atmosphere. The real journey unfolds through your own body.
Who this is for
You want to understand why you repeat the same patterns in relationships, and transform them at the root, in the body. No previous experience in this specific work is required. It is valuable for personal growth, and for those working in wellbeing, therapy, coaching, or bodywork who want an experiential grounding in how patterns live in the body. Every body and every level of experience is welcome.
This is deep experiential work involving breath, movement, and emotional release.
All contact is invitational and consent-based. You choose your level of participation at all times.
Practical details
Dates
October 19 to 22, 2026
Time
6:00pm to 8:00pm each evening
Total
8 hours of experiential work
Location
Unified Healing School (SOUH), Ubud, Bali
Group size
6 to 20 participants
What to bring
Comfortable clothing, a blanket, and an open attitude
A diploma / Certificate of Achievement in Foundations of Somatic-Relational Tantra, with the SOUH school logo, awarded in the closing ceremony on the final evening.
A 30-minute group Zoom call one week later to integrate the work, plus home practices and materials, and a WhatsApp group for questions and connection during that period.
Investment
Only 10 early-bird places
Reserved on a first-come, first-served basis.
2,600,000 IDR
Only 10 places · first come, first served
Reserve at early-bird price3,000,000 IDR
Once the early-bird places are gone
Reserve your placeFAQ
No. Tantra here goes far beyond techniques about sex. This is about conscious connection, presence, and how we meet ourselves and one another. Sex is not the objective of this work.
No. Come alone or with a partner. The exercises are done individually, in pairs, and in groups, and all contact is invitational and consent-based.
No prior experience in this specific work is required. If you have never done any inner or personal-growth work before, please reach out to me first so we can make sure this is the right moment for you.
Each evening weaves together brief theory and framing, guided somatic and breath practices, movement, individual embodiment work, partner and group exercises, and space for sharing and integration.
Never. All contact is invitational and consent-based. You choose your level of participation at every moment.
Yes. You receive a diploma / Certificate of Achievement with the SOUH school logo, awarded in the closing ceremony.
A 30-minute group Zoom call one week later, a set of simple home practices and materials, and a WhatsApp group during that period.
October 19–22 · Ubud, Bali
Four evenings. One journey. From armor to the freedom of being fully seen.
Only 10 early-bird places at 2,600,000 IDR · then 3,000,000 IDR · limited to 20